Admit it. You’ve tried everything – and she still isn’t coming back. Flowers, postcards and desperate Facebook messages – all failed to do the trick. A change of strategy is in order! Read on to discover the right way to write a letter to ex girlfriend – and how it can get your ex back in 17 days.
Love letters are one of the most popular ways to get your ex back. This is because they give your ex an opportunity to hear out your side of the story without the awkwardness of meeting you face-to-face. Let’s face it – immediately after the break-up, you are the last person your ex wants to see. A letter allows you to explain everything that has happened without putting her in an uncomfortable position.
Writing a letter to ex girlfriend is almost a form of art. There are three rules you need to follow for it to be effective. First of all, try to understand how she feels. In other words, when you apologize in your letter, do not simply say that you’re sorry; instead, say that you’re sorry that you did something and that you realize that your actions made your ex feel in a certain way. This shows your ex that you made an effort to understand how she feels and makes her more receptive to the idea of getting back with you.
Secondly, take some time to think about the break-up before you write it. Remember, you only get one shot at it – so make sure your letter is a good one. When I wrote such a letter, I spread it over several days and it took me about 4 revisions before I settled on the final draft. Avoid coming across as too aggressive – your ex isn’t prepared to deal with accusations, and you don’t want to put her on the defensive.
Thirdly, be careful with apologies. Your first instinct is to apologize for all your mistakes – real or imaginary – but remember that if you overdo it, she will think that you’re just saying whatever it takes to win her back. That would completely destroy the credibility of your letter. So only apologize for things that are genuinely your fault – remember, the break-up happened because of what you both did, not just you.Image Source: http://images.google.com
